Tuesday, 19 April 2011

Snow

Yesterday I crawled out of bed and into the living room where Melissa greeted me from the table with cheery, "Good morning! Or should I say 'merry Christmas'?"
"What?"
"Look outside."
 It was snowing.

Well, you know what they say, April snowfalls bring May phone calls.

Ever the Guest, Never the Host


My sister told me the story of one of her friends who could pack his entire life into a box; she greatly admired him for it and is currently trying to prune her own life of the unnecessary. It certainly is a thought-provoking idea and I am all for abandoning a conventional life of materia, but I find myself moved by a restless burst of independence--I am trying to nest, to gather about me my belongings in hopes of grouping them into something I can call my home, or rather 'my place' and arrange things therein as I want them.

I have been moving about so constantly over the past few years that I grow rather tired of that unsettled feeling. As I am quickly approaching the end of my stay in Amerikat, my thoughts turn constantly to 'the next location,' and even the things here--my half of the dresser, my desk--covered by my stuff and so obviously declared as belonging to me are beginning to have that accusatory look of 'not-mine-ness.'

This, my wise friend Natalie informs me, is a good thing; it shows that I have completed this stage in my life--clearing the level, defeating the boss--and I am ready to throw myself into the fray of new things.


Now all I have to do is finish well.

Sunday, 17 April 2011

Business in the Front, Party in the Back

I sit once again at Starbucks in hopes of getting some schoolwork done, which works marvelously well provided that Melissa and I don't sit at the same table. I was in here not more than a week ago, when the barristas accidentally mistook a drive-thru order and made two Venti Ice Chai Lattes, to which Melissa said, "We'll happily take your mistakes." And they sold them to us for the price of a Grande.


The managerial staff came by an hour or so later--two men in crisp black and white checked shirts, the first one a fat man with a buzz cut from the nineties, the second shorter, handsome, energetic--and they spent the next few hours helping out with the orders, cracking jokes, monitoring efficiency, asking questions--like "Do you know what a dirty chai is?"--about the drinks, customers, the shop, taking a personal interest in their employees. Everything, I suppose, that a good manager should do.

And as if to grace us with his presence for a grand finish to the day, a young man with a newly cut Kentucky Waterfall stepped into the shop. He was well-dressed and had an affable, clean-cut look about him and a cathedral tattoo on his left shoulder; but the crowning glory of his personage was undoubtedly the mullet. He and his friend who stepped in with him knew Bailey, one of the barristas. She greeted him with a 'Hey, Nicholas' and a second, once-over look.

Bailey: "Do you like it?"
Nicholas: "It's terrible."
Bailey: "But do you love it though?"
Nicholas: "I do." 

The manager, attracted by this hair apparent, fell into the conversation with them--an exchange of words which ended with the final statement, "Jesus had a mullet." You can't argue with that one.

This time around there are no such interesting characters about the place, and I should be getting work done. I have to read Looking for Mr. Green and Langston Hughes's Montage of a Dream Deferred, as well as work on my paper abstract for the same class, get started on my fourth short story due on Thursday, and write at least the first five hundred words for the paper for Professor Anker's class. Have no fear. I shall prevail.

I was wrong. Two men just walked in. The first one, ready to settle down and enjoy some coffee, let out a sigh of disapproval and complained about the music. But the second, taller one turned to his friend. "Oh, come on. Real men like Norah Jones." He turned to Melissa in the corner. "Right?"
Melissa nodded vigorously in agreement. "They certainly do."
But, seeing no place to sit, they turned to head back out, the first one suggesting some other place of repose. The second one agreed, sadly. "But they're not going to have Norah though..."

This is the great thing about coffee shops. So many things to see, and so many things to write. I must write that I may notice and remember. And now you know, as well as I.

Palm Sunday or Psalm Fun Day?

Psalm Fun Day at church is always followed with a hearty meal and good friends.

 Christine sees the world through peace.

Palm Sunday is Phil's favorites day of the year.
"I am quite frond of it."

 Emily and Kyle share their thoughts on tissues.



Michal and Christine on the couch

Ben takes a moment to smell the coffee.

A helping hand

 Tea for two

 Cornflower eyes


 You ever have that feeling when what people are saying is going right over your  head...

The Brothers Videtich


 Melissa shares a special moment with Bobbie.

The intimacy increases.

"I'm playing little spoon to a cat."

And thus our Palm Sunday was celebrated with tacos and chocolate chip cake and vanilla ice cream. 

A Spring in Your Step

Buds burst
as spring lives
again




Saturday, 16 April 2011

Hyperbole is the WORST Thing EVER

Not really. I don't mind a bit of melodrama, a dash of gilded speech every now and then, but I feel an increasing need to undo it, to take it out of my system. I need get out of America. I don't like the way the culture is changing me, particularly it's superfluous use of hyperbole.

I hate long lines.
Oh man, I love brownies.
My mom's gonna kill me.

Really? Your mom's going to kill you?

Do we know what we mean when we say such things? Is it really just culture, a twenty-first century manner of speaking? Or is it symptomatic of a greater problem, an insincerity we can't stop?


I hate getting up in the morning.                              I hate racism.
I love cereal.                                                              I love my family.



Let your "Yes" be yes, and your "No," no.